May 14, 2013

" When Someone Finds ... "



“When someone finds  ..."
   May 28, 2012
   Carrie Adams
   Copyrights Reserved


                                         “When someone finds ...”

All the time in the world to feud on and on - is it any wonder that anything could be resolved?  Do you ever suspect someone to take risky and false accusations and displace them toward you while no one is concerned that they be truthful, evident, fictitious, impaired and many times no thorough discernment is considered?

                                         “When someone finds ...”

Their own motives that strangely speak of  unknown details  , circumstances to never have occurred , suspicious quandary and placing You right there , with back up witnesses , ( did you see ) and a divorce court judge is told of this with your knowledge or unaware and outright oblivious to the antics by your accuser ... where's the jury , new case trial number , camera's , media , payments to ( criminal divorce attorneys ) ( a defense extraordinaire team ) and the right to be represented by all the pro bono law  firms ?  Where should you live if this is what you expected?

                                         “When someone finds ...”

The reasons to toss your values, your rights, your property, your kids to the wayside or to the nearest barren ditch who is responsible for these types of violations?  How can divorce judges ever know your situation when all these details may have been shared in your (client / council privacy paid in full session / retainer date)   ; confidential but un taped deposition meeting etc ... and to your surprise all that You had lost was not when you were married but the saga of a divorce can and most likely wipe you empty of everything as though you never attained anything in a long term marriage.  Please show me these dots and stop calling these situations “Oh well  ...  we can get to that matter later on!”

                                       “When someone finds ...”

Their popularity or achievements in being that single parent ( wow .. custodial , full - time care provider, major dough earner , tax cut recipient , free of charge events ( I'm a single parent ) life style  , sole protector against others wishes - minors,  when these luxuries are one sided then possibly the best resolution is that each single winning ticket , " big prize winner "  should stand before the media , the churches , the schools , the sport team coaches and announce openly what was their strategy !  There are enough monies being paid in divorce cases everywhere that never should two people be paying for representation.  If it's such an accomplishment to be the sole parent after a divorce then all the law studies , courses , semesters at higher learning institutions  and anything that remotely echoes these phenomenon’s they  should be barred, shut down and red taped with caution -  danger - bulletins and guarded with the sharpest cactus's and sprayed regularly for over grown debt collections !

                                       “When someone finds ....”

All their purpose and energy to block your relationship from your kids why would this be acceptable?  Why would various departments , agencies , fax lists , call back later runarounds , higher retainer fees amongst law firms , switching of circuit judges , delay court hearings , sick day attorney cancellations , violated court orders , unsubstantiated motions , early dismissals , a child's up bringing that is proven to be estranged from relatives , abandonment to a child's familiarities  be so REAL and it all crawls quietly not being detected  meanwhile  person /s ( identification registered id's ) are stamped routinely and  pressed to every page of your divorce triage experience   and the reputable signature is approving  the industries judgment about you , your kids your pursuit to happiness ?  Please fed ex these policies free of charge.

                                       “When someone finds ....”

Themselves , can a family preservation  survey be  resent with a SASE and the registered routing code and the addressed person/s  appropriately  change their answers to their current status , the updates : same / unchanged  .  Could this viable questionnaire be added to the divorce case file with an expiration date and all answers from the previous survey and current survey be  read aloud ( under 500 % cotton thread , 31 % polyester and 79 % leather ) before a pack filled court room while fairies mediate and unveil the alarming regrets by said person/s  present ) that they found ( been transformed ) ( had an epiphany )  and their renewed  moral and ethical ( views  thoughts , discoveries ) shall  balance their beloved family hopefully and would hope that the judge and courts in their state would modify the prior position from sole care provider to honorable shared parent without biases and discrimination .

                                       “When someone finds ....”

 This...  read it.  Comment on it, share it!  In my own way, I write because I can, because I love to and only because my God has blessed me with this gifting.  If you walk away from reading somewhere in your life time you lose the capacity to comprehend and that can never be negotiated if someone uses advantage against you and the high stakes of being removed out of your children's lives is your desperate reality.

You just might need an army of advocates who stand against the odds and who push the envelope and who ultimately rescue the children , the mass generation of our young and the precious babes that each of us know ( from their births ) and we faint not because this joy is God's and He gave our children to Us and we contend prayerfully that the multi layered darkened forces may toss you to and fro , hinder your finances , distort all truths with a bullying exercise  , describe you to your kids like muddy waters and resume their lives with a null trace that you exist .

                                       “When someone finds  ...”

What they are looking for...  it is found.

Copyrights Reserved
Carrie Adams
May 28, 2012

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