" The Choice To Destroy "

" The Choice To Destroy ... "
 By:Carrie Adams

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What would motivate someone to destroy you , the ones you love the ones you nurtured , the ones you protected , the ones you gave birth to , the ones you would die for , the ones you put first before yourself , the ones you waited years to conceive , the ones you fed and bathed , the ones you lost months of sleep for , the ones you lost your diet for , the ones you kept appointments for without any cancellations , the ones you withheld yourself from continuing your personal career for , the ones you breathe night and day for when together or apart , the ones you rush to proper care in an urgent emergency , the ones you share laughter with , the ones you embraced in family photo's , the ones you first taught to walk and talk , the ones you sent to kindergarten with a nervous stomach for the first time , the ones you gave kisses to when you woke them up to feed them , the ones you rocked to sleep after a bed time story , the ones you hugged and did not want to let go of , the ones that are called your children - your sons , your daughters , the ones that carry on the names you gave to them , the ones that should never be ripped apart from you for unfounded reasons , the ones that have grandparents , cousins , aunts and uncles on two sides of the family , the ones that God himself created and were in the perfect care of a mother and a father .

 " The Choice to Destroy....  “

When all the optimistic experiences mentioned above is slightly destroyed - who does one blame?  If 1/2 of the above experiences were valid and jointly known - who would have the clearest memories?  If anything above was known before then immediately destroyed, who makes the choice to destroy? 

Our children have no reason within the small framework of their minds to want to destroy the natural, unconditional love that mothers and fathers have for them.  Grandparents that enjoy the spritely, springy, active younglings called grand children.  Nevertheless, I still ask you; what would motivate someone to destroy what you love?

Did that destroyer ever love you and therefore unable to love what you love?

Could a destroyer repair the damages to what he/she/ they/ have destroyed?  What is the cost to repair the damages once someone makes the choice to destroy you and the ones that you love?  Would you ask the price?  Would you charge the costs?  How could a destroyer get away with the damages and no one else asks or notices?  Do you see the choices around you made by others that are destroying innocent lives?  What would you do with the known destroyer who made a choice to destroy the bountiful life that you once had with your children?  What would you wish for your children to know about the magnitude of damages done by a destroyer? 

How could you share the same journey (loving your children) when life was once smooth sailing then turned ship wrecked?  Who was the captain of the ship?  Who made the choices of where the ship would sail?  Who was mending the floppy sails through storms and high winds with confidence?  Was the ship out to sea or was it ever docked in distant bays for repairs, inventory or neither?

 Where was the map when the captain decided to change the course of your journey?  Did anyone else know that there was a change - should someone send a notice?  Was there a race unknown to you that later affected the outcome to the course that you were sharing as parents with your children?  Did your children see the choices that were sensible when the destroyer attempted to seize every substance of your life's cargo as a parent? 

Whom do you tell your testimony to?  Why would the choice to destroy all good things be witnessed by so many and so few can speak about it?  Is it about morals?  Is it about money?  Is it about power?  Is it about insecurities?  Is it about fear?  Is it about tag -teams?  Is it about principalities?  Is it about scruples?  Is it about vengeance?  Is it about demons?  Is it about sink or swim?  Is it about judgments?  Is it about damnation?  Is it about persecution?  Is it about punishment? 

Is it about the destroyer who cannot admit to them self that they are entirely capable of wrecking , manipulating , fabricating , falsely accusing someone other than them self and hope that each and every other person don't ever capture them alone because maybe just maybe their ways of destroying others could harm one in their midst and in their reach ! 

Are you known as a destroyer of all good things or have you been your very best at mending what you were allowed to because you were given so little after all the trouble you sacrificed ? 

It's time for the children who know more than they are given credit for to take each and every person in their life and review the traits , words , comments , maps , memories , photos , experiences and judge for themselves who they know to be a destroyer or mender with those people who love them and those people they may not know which love them . 

When the longest oceans and widest sails have made full circle it will be the clearest - blue truthful day that they have waited so long for ......

 We pray for the children who are silently suffering because someone close to them has decided to make choices to destroy all good things that they love.

“ The Choice To Destroy”

  By: Carrie Adams

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